Life is certainly a journey with its up and downs and in-betweens.
For me, I guess, it really did start with ‘death decluttering’ ….ha ha ha. Before I was diagnosed in the early 2000’s I became obsessed with collecting things from the 30’s,40;s 50’s and 60’s. I had a lot of fun going to estate sales and looking for buttons, Melmac, old fans, dishes etc. I had some really nice stuff. And my absolute love is mid-century furniture and still is actually.
So in 2005 when I went thru the gut-wrenching process of getting diagnosed( I would not recommend a biopsy of a plasmacytoma in the back with a neurosurgeon using a hammer), I had a very tiny house with lots of stuff. With a prognosis of 3-5 years survival, I think at some point, I just wanted it gone but it wasn’t right away.
It probably wasn’t until @ 2010 when I relapsed that the idea sprung into my head, that I didn’t want my kids or husband to deal with this stuff. So….it slowly was tossed, given away or donated. Thus, the ‘death decluttering’. Don’t wait till it’s too late to purge, and simplify. Really, really, DO IT NOW.
I still have more than I’d like. In October my challenge was 1000 things gone. I got to 700 and then I just didn’t find any more or at least motivated too. So, it is a journey of discovery.
I guess there is a balance with it too. I kinda need a couch at this point. There was a time sitting on the floor was fine but now I’d probably need a crane to get up so that’s out. Also, I’ve always loved all things Japanese, so I wanted a low table on the floor but again, crane anyone?
Where am I with it all? I want only what I use and need and fits our house. We have given away thousands of things and it feels so good.
I am enjoying adding house plants which are adding oxygen and greenery. A win-win….
Dinner is leftover wild rice chicken soup and twice baked potatoes with a salad.